What we often call love is in fact a good nap with company, a way to avoid our life without having to feel lonely, where two minds can agree to be only half-aware, together, so that in this state of merging they can live half asleep as one and be safe.

We have the idea that sex without love is profane and yet we do not believe the same about love without sex.

Anything that requires or demands a specific form rather than merely allowing forms to arise, should be questioned. Especially when it demands that the form be held irrespective of shifting dynamics.

When men dominate the market on sex, it becomes very priapic, focused on a “get-er-done” climax consciousness and conquering. This approach strips away the art, beauty, and sacred elements that could bridge distances rather than create them.