Our own desire is to be a vehicle of freedom for each other, a reflection for the other person to witness themselves, see how they operate, know truth, speak the unspeakable, face loss, and maintain connection irrespective of perceived rights and desires. The nature of this relationship is to both give and receive everything with the willingness always to surrender in the name of connection itself.

In the realm of Eros, there lies a crucial distinction between the physical and a deeper, electrifying presence. Presence is what we all crave—the totality of being fully alive in the moment. Without it, there is a spot within a woman that remains untouched, preventing the activation of her full potential. 

I believe ninety-nine percent of a woman’s insanity comes from a lack of stabilization while being in flight. They want to be met by a pole of true equanimity, moving in pitch-perfect response with everything that comes. They want that feeling of being fully supported, of being able to move freely. 

Love is the force that refuses to grasp, that refuses to contract, that refuses to pin the butterfly to the wall.

Yes, you enjoy, you love, you tend to. But the intention, the prayer, the hope is to release them back into the wild.

Learn the art of being left. Flat out abandoned. Ghosted. Unceremoniously. Chase after it. But this time, don’t try to escape it. Give yourself to abandonment like you did your lover.

Romance, relationship are not bad. They are, though, finite.

Don’t settle for the trailer when you can see the whole movie, with 3D glasses where the added dimension is the dimension of love.

What we often call love is in fact a good nap with company, a way to avoid our life without having to feel lonely, where two minds can agree to be only half-aware, together, so that in this state of merging they can live half asleep as one and be safe.

We have the idea that sex without love is profane and yet we do not believe the same about love without sex.

Anything that requires or demands a specific form rather than merely allowing forms to arise, should be questioned. Especially when it demands that the form be held irrespective of shifting dynamics.