It is acceptable to be a sexual woman in our culture—but only within the right parameters. Be sexy, but don’t be too sexual. Be intelligent, but don’t be too embodied. As if those things are 
mutually exclusive.

To live artfully is to master the flow between inspiration and form, allowing desire to move through us unfiltered.
True fulfillment comes not from accumulation, but from the precision of what the soul calls forth. 

The Erotic view on asexuality is that there is no such thing as asexuality. Not in the way we conceive of it. We are in the throes of the universe making love with itself. We are sex.

Anything elevated to the level of art becomes a means to transport oneself— a force that penetrates reality and grants access to the state we are all seeking.

You will know you are loved not by how tightly someone holds onto you but by how free you feel in their presence.

To engage with Eros as a man in this moment in time—amidst the complexity of women’s experiences and the culture at large—requires a rare kind of presence and an unwavering recognition of women’s inherent nobility.

When someone posts “Danger! Danger! Danger!”—that is tumescence.

 

When someone insists “There is absolutely no danger”—that is also tumescence.

 

When people declare
”They are crazy or dangerous”—both forms of tumescence meet.

In the absence of a secure and self-valuing identity, women often find themselves inhabited by three archetypal “ghosts”: the Martyr, the Victim, and the Mad Woman.

Orgasmic Meditation (OM) is a 15-minute, attention-training practice that uses a precise, structured technique to awaken the body’s most potent force—the erotic impulse—and direct it toward healing and growth.

“The idea is that Orgasmic Meditation uses arousal to access latent creativity and a mystical state; she believes practitioners can use this “erotic force” to connect with others and decrease suffering.”