Nicole Daedone

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The writings and musings of Nicole Daedone

Hexed is the automatic feeling of wanting to shut out or
shut down something that
arouses an insecurity in you. It feels like a confirmation of self doubt that causes a reaction. You know that you are hexed when you feel insulted because
if you didn’t already believe it you wouldn’t care. 

A naked woman is a mirror. What you see in her is yourself—your fears, your conditioning, your discomfort. And that discomfort will tell you where you are on the map.

The most empowering thing you can do today as a woman is detox from the story of your powerlessness

The most accessible way to understand the force of a woman might be through the nexus of power in human physiology, psychology, motivation, and growth: sexual energy. A woman turns this power on through Call.

The single solution is for women to reclaim position as source and the territory of Eros and sexual energies. Anything other than this is distraction and drama.

There is a cartel of sorts that enforces the fundamental notion that women are asexual and that men are hypersexual. It’s made up of both men and women interested in extorting people. You exchange your freedom for protection from the above three fears.

It is acceptable to be a sexual woman in our culture—but only within the right parameters. Be sexy, but don’t be too sexual. Be intelligent, but don’t be too embodied. As if those things are 
mutually exclusive.

A genius never before imagined in the blue ocean of woman far beyond the read shark infested waters of man. We do not need to avoid the water altogether. We need to swim out further. And do for woman and reality what Cirque de Soleil did for the circus. This is our gift, the added dimension of art, elegance, taste, quality, mysticism to the pre-existing. 

The sexual energies we could ride to our liberation on,
We turn into lassos to grab for the boyfriend, the husband,
The small pittance of love or approval.
That gift, invaluable,
We ration like misers, proudly starving ourselves and the world.