So drop good girl. Drop the softening, the modulation, the attempt to be more or less than you are. Drop the habit of shrinking or shaping yourself to fit. Just be—without valence, without apology, without holding back.
The habit of scarcity has been drilled into us—this idea that we must grasp, that we must trade, that we must be chosen. But that is the great illusion. The truth is, we are the ones who generate, we are the ones who circulate, we are the ones who sustain.
For years, mycelium was misunderstood. People saw it as something dirty, something to be eradicated. But now we know better. Mycelium is the life force beneath the forest floor.
A new era is upon us. We seem to have elected to include some new qualities, what I call ‘the triple threat of the feminine’: strong, alluring, & intelligent.
When a woman is in full possession of herself, her body, her desire, her presence, she does not need to push or fight. She does not need to wield power like a weapon. She is power.
To design a future, one must have a destination. True design works backward—you map from the endpoint to where you stand.
Hexed is the automatic feeling of wanting to shut out or shut down something that arouses an insecurity in you. It feels like a confirmation of self doubt that causes a reaction. You know that you are hexed when you feel insulted because if you didn’t already believe it you wouldn’t care.
A naked woman is a mirror. What you see in her is yourself—your fears, your conditioning, your discomfort. And that discomfort will tell you where you are on the map.
The most empowering thing you can do today as a woman is detox from the story of your powerlessness