Don’t be reduced to duty and transaction.
Women for the most part do not see men as they truly are, but rather as projects to be molded or future husbands to fit a predetermined role.
Make it that the women who demonstrate choice, agency, desire, hunger–the things of adulthood–get protected from the cruel Scarlet Letter Mind of the culture so that they do not need to dial back, pretend, retroactively deny their choice in all matters, sell their soul and their adulthood in order to belong.
This is the new male honor.