Why Modern Dating Feels So Empty

When women refuse to hold the reins of sexuality, it falls to men to hold them. Under a strictly masculine ethos, sex becomes goal-oriented, focused on conquering and a “get-er-done” climax consciousness. This approach strips away the art, beauty, and sacredness of sexuality that would bridge the distance between two people.

The experience becomes hard and physical, mirroring masculine energy, rather than fluid and brimming with life, like the feminine. Reality gets fragmented into categories:

love,
sex,
connection,
emotion.

The dynamic life force that stirs within a woman is reduced to a single physical event.

NOTE: This does not reflect poorly on men. It is simply what happens when someone is asked to be an expert in a non-native domain. How we relate to sex is how we relate to life itself.

Do you want to program sex as duty, obligation, and transaction, where the highest goals are release and procreation?

Or do you want sex to be transcendent—an experience that transports you into a space where wisdom and creativity are dense and available?The outcome will depend on women fully re-engaging with the arena of sexuality.