Part 3: Woman—The Inconvenient Path & Practice

The process is two-fold: She increases the heat through sexual energies in order to melt away what obscures her magnetism, allowing what is natural to radiate freely.

In doing so, she grants herself permission to recognize that the power within her is not something to prove but something to affirm—a force potent enough to call the masculine into its right expression.

In that realization, she flashes: She is not here to earn approval, but to bestow it.

1. One must have absolute certainty of their commitment to the voice and draw of desire before entering this stage. Each of us knows in the depths what is true. We must be able to respond with
a convicted yes to the question, “Will you follow this desire regardless of what it demands of you, what you may lose, what you might have to express that is so uncomfortable for a woman—your power, your intelligence, your desire?”

2. This reversal of consciousness often causes a destabilization. The old strategies—convincing, proving worth, and withdrawing when those fail—are deeply ingrained, and as they begin to unravel, she feels the disorientation of losing familiar ground.

3. What was unconsciously tolerated becomes intolerable; the invisible patterns of being dismissed, unheard, diminished, or “taught.” She sees that her intuition and solutions are in fact more viable.

4. Here, she increases the heat of sexual energies to burn away the congestion of irritation, the contraction that would constrain her vision, and the coping mechanisms she has bonded to in order to avoid the pain—from romance to substances, consumption to fantasy, arguing to spirituality.

5. The heat breaks the bond and energy is liberated. It is vital here to take the live wire and immediately plug it into the deeper, more subtle level of creativity that exists within her.

6. If this is not done with immediacy, the energy will flow into pre-grooved patterns and, although it will feel like ecstasy—intensified romances and highs—she will be drained and depleted. It is strongly suggested that she immediately set to creating: write out the vision that is coming through, draw, paint, create systems of benefit.

7. She must at this point cleave to the desire that has encoded within it the instructions to continue the liberation process, remembering that there is a pattern that wants to keep her small and invisible that will operate until all is liberated.

She cannot go by comfort or what feels “good.” She must respond to the injunction of desire even if she is not certain and even if they go against the grain of her coping patterns.

8. If she wastes the energy, she will have short-lived pleasure that returns her to a point that is lower than when she started and will likely have a long cycle before she makes it back.