Your “defects” are not, in fact, defects but nascent or un-evolved aspects of being.
Your rage becomes the power to create. Your impulsiveness becomes your capacity to respond. Your emotionality becomes your empathy.
The intent is not to pry behaviors from your hands. Your hands will be full of behaviors that no longer serve you, and you will open them and let them empty when you’re ready.
This is how you convert destruction into calling and suffering into creativity, offering them an alternative reality, teaching them surrender and experiential humility.