Today’s question for women might be:
How do you use the gem that a man can be?
Is he there to support your outward-facing efforts and dreams, or to fix and comfort you in an inward-facing way?
The latter isn’t inherently wrong, just inefficient. It keeps you isolated, broken, and silent. It maintains the status quo.
This dynamic often stems from women’s real fears of being killed for being seen, so men become shields.
Yet, remember, your protector is also your warden. Your fixer is the one who keeps you broken to ensure his job security.
How could you instead shine your power through a man?