What She Really Wants

Women often feel a sense of deficit, of something missing.

The thing that is missing is arousal.

Without cultivating arousal as her default state, she will feel insufficient, and instead of addressing the real issue, she will scan the world for external solutions. She’ll believe she’s missing something—love from the right man, a certain kind of life, a version of security or validation that will finally make things feel whole. But because she doesn’t address the core issue, everything she does reinforces that lack. So she stacks her life around the hollow—relationships, goals, even her spiritual seeking—hoping one day it will finally feel full. 

But it was never about adding more. It was always about igniting what’s already inside.