If you want to understand the true divide in the world, it isn’t between left and right, good and bad, or even love and hate. It’s between arousal and non-arousal. Beneath all the ideologies, beneath the arguments and diagnoses and righteous causes, there is a line—thin but electric—that separates those who have learned to live with their bodies dimmed, and those who dare to turn on. And the tragedy, the heartbreak, is that so many of the people who most believe in healing have been trained to shut down.
The healing world, with its scented candles and softly whispered affirmations, often ends up colluding with the same deadening forces it claims to oppose. Turn the lights off, light some sage, go to sleep. That’s the prescription. But what if the cure isn’t in calming yourself down, but in waking yourself up? What if the real medicine is in the fire? You deserve more than numb comfort. You deserve a life where every cell in your body is lit up, trembling with the realization of your full capacity.
You deserve to be seen not as a pathology to be managed, but as a power to be released. Arousal—true, sustained, unapologetic—is still the most controversial state you can live in. Because once you’ve crossed over, you can’t be controlled. You’re not afraid, not ashamed, and certainly not going back.