Focus on just this:
What will get me out of suffering, the causes of suffering, and help others get out of suffering.
Study well the causes and conditions of happiness.
Don’t do anything to be good or liked.
Do it because when you do, you build a bank account of happiness so that no matter your conditions you are wealthy.
What is wealth?
It is the ability to face the impermanence of life.
We can all get sick, we can all have someone die, we can all have heartbreak—but we never have to lose that ground of happiness.