That which you deem inferior, you must hate, and that which you hate can always sense that hate. In this hate, you will see your reflection.
This is how you create a world that is your enemy, how life becomes your enemy, how the dynamic becomes one of you and your lover against the world. Until it becomes one of you against your lover. And, finally, you against yourself.
The same dynamic arises between you and what you consider superior to you. You will pretend and conform for those you feel inferior to.
And what you do not express, what you withhold and repress in that pretending, will ferment. At some point, it will explode. And then you will repeat the process, returning to your feigned supplication, your earnest struggle to “combat” your ego, to conceal your own divine nature and knowing.
There is another way.