To be with the dakini is to move beyond the ordinary understandings of sex or love or pleasure.
For the dakini, sex is objectless; it is a means of moving energy, of purifying, of transforming.
It is a way to take the raw material of desire and refine it, distill it into something that is both essence and aspiration.
It is to see not with your eyes, but with a deeper, more universal gaze—a gaze that strips away the layers of ego, of attachment, and sees through to the core, the heart of things.