If you were equipped with a wicked sense of humor, a delight in play, an unshakeable sense of your value, you’d be an unstoppable juggernaut.
Dudes being dudes—mansplaining and cracking those misogynistic jokes—is first an opportunity to get a printout of where you can still be triggered, then an opportunity to joust and show ‘em what you got.
Closed options and limited opportunities create the high-intensity conditions needed to break open new creativity and ingenuity.
They become the reason to break free from arcane institutions and design the new way.
The ever-gripping hand of the patriarchy, that always and ever only wants to limit your bodily autonomy, your relationship to choice and expression, and your relationship with your body, becomes the suffocating force that awakens an unimaginable strength in you to break out of the
automatic external and internal contraction and claim your appetite: the sex, the food, the expression, the deep sensitivity, the native wisdom, the carrier signal that is located in the unique body of woman.
There will be those, like mules, who remain saddled with resignation, prideful defeatism, an identity of being at effect of the world.
There will be those who find that they are the cause of all they see.
They will exist in totally different worlds inside the same world.