Nicole Daedone
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June 25, 2025
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Control Your Attention, Control Your Life

In Orgasmic Meditation (OM), you isolate the orgasm impulse to repurpose it for the pure quality of arousal. Not as a means to pleasure, reproduction, or romance, but as a force to power attention. And when you control your attention, you control your life.

In our culture we are pulled in a thousand directions by habit, fear, addiction, thought loops, and internalized pressures. OM offers something radical: the liberated capacity for free will. A mind no longer beholden to conditioned drives becomes a mind capable of choosing. Arousal is the fuel.

Hyperfocus, the kind that breaks through the habituated mind, relies on 2 things:
 Attention powerful enough to break the trance of emotion, thought, and automatic behavior. The ability to guide that attention from beneath the reflex of ego or self-interest.

What we typically label attention deficit, traumatic rumination, obsession, addiction, and feeling hopeless, helpless, and powerless, are not only mitigated, but transformed. The force of the value-neutral orgasm drive flows like a river through the attention.

The rumination or obsession that blocked or controlled the attention now works for it. This is the equation: Build a faculty of attention more powerful than any condition and you become free to choose your outlook.

The people we consider heroes who could miraculously control their attention, both depth and focus, were able to do so because they had tapped into that pure, uncorrupted drive. What OM does is to take the random, seemingly God-given capacity for resilience and genius and makes it accessible
in a reliable, repeatable way.

Learn more about the practice at ErosPlatform.com

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