The Sensation of Desire Met

Eros teaches us that the sensation that we’re looking for in making love is in our bodies all the time. It’s the sensation of desire met. It is deeply gratified, which is different from feeling satisfied. Being satisfied means we’re full and don’t need more. But the feeling of gratification is when we’re having and wanting simultaneously. There is a gap, room for growth and becoming, and that is where we live.When we are in clear, good relationship with our desire, this is where it brings us. But this feeling of gratification is not going to happen by our desire serving us. We can convince ourselves that it will, but desire doesn’t work that way. We will only attain what we seek when we serve desire, when we acknowledge and respect and, most importantly, can feel Eros moving inside us. At that moment, all the filters go down. We aren’t in our heads anymore. We are in our bodies and fully present in moment to moment experience; everything opens and we feel an electricity.