In the realm of Eros, there lies a crucial distinction between the physical and a deeper, electrifying presence. Presence is what we all crave—the totality of being fully alive in the moment. Without it, there is a spot within a woman that remains untouched, preventing the activation of her full potential.
When a man engages in intimacy without presence, craving is born. The woman may feel the physical sensation of being penetrated, but she is left unfulfilled, creating an obsession for something more.
On the other side, the experience can become watery, failing to ignite the necessary electricity to bring her into a state of presence.This leads to a cycle of vacillation between craving and comfort, neither of which provides the true electricity needed to awaken and fulfill.
Women like yearning and men like craving. Both call constriction sexy. The masculine begins to chase more, creating an addictive cycle with diminishing returns.
This cycle, known as sexual samsara, traps both in a loop without ever achieving the contact they desire.
If we don’t limit a woman, if the conceptual self—her breasts, her ass, etc—isn’t laid on top, she is able to open as her full self. An endless effulgence of vast, pouring, flooding bliss begins, overwhelming that small self that clings to control, the self that confuses craving for desire.
Sustained indefinitely they cross the threshold into the Technicolor highway of infinite bliss and into the infinite potential of true presence.
It is a journey that promises a life of continuous, awe-inspiring bliss, where the richness and beauty of each moment are ever-changing and boundless.