True sisterhood—not sisterhood about or over a man, and not sisterhood about commiserating—is where sisters reflect what each is capable of. They reflect genuine power, connecting by raising the bar and refusing to accept or play in the collective woman’s game of incapability, victimhood, or—the complement to these—competition.
True sisterhood is women who use other women as their reason to become better and reveal their power more; women who can demand better from us because they demand it of themselves, and demand it of themselves because they admit their value. For this woman, it is not about discovering her value; it is simply admitting it.