How Do You Use Your Erotic Energy?

The hardest thing for a woman to understand—what truly takes her across the threshold—is the choice she faces in how to use her Erotic energies.

She can use them to “get,” relying on attraction as the built in lasso. Or, she can use them to give, letting her Erotic energies keep the vital flow circulating through the mycelial network.

When you channel your Erotic energies for yourself, the tendency is toward withdrawal. There’s a slow drift into a kind of sleepiness.

But when you use them for something beyond yourself—even if it lacks the comforting sweetness of romance or the thrill of sensation—it electrifies. It animates.

Notice how often you resist engaging when romance isn’t present, how you’d rather turn away than face the discomfort of engagement without it. Yet, when your unfolding connection with Eros becomes your deepest priority, everything shifts. Everything.

Keeping the Erotic flow alive becomes the only thing that matters.

The mind that justifies its inertia or hides behind sweetness, resentment, or withdrawal becomes intolerable. Suddenly, you are willing to forgive, to release your grasping for “mine,” to let go of the shallow comfort of the saccharine. Romance, with its empty calories, no longer satisfies.

All that matters is the flow. It’s the only space where you can truly breathe.