We want to fall in love
Because it’s a preview of what is available to us at all times.
It’s what lures us into the potential
That goes beyond the gates of other humans
Where unconditionality exists.
Romance, relationship are not bad.
They are, though, finite.
Don’t settle for the trailer when you can see the whole movie, with 3D glasses where the added dimension is the dimension of love.
You know how when you’re first falling in love, it doesn’t matter?
The shitty job doesn’t matter, the five extra pounds, the bitchy clerk, the dishes in the sink . . .
Things magically alleviate—anxiety, the feeling of not being or having enough, the self-scrutiny, the irritation, and the fatigue
IF only for a moment, this love breaks the mind free.
The promise of Eros is that this state can move to a non-localized stage
That requires no object.
You become in love with love itself
And it, with you.