The greatest level of transmutation can occur as a result of interacting with the enemy friend. We have one secret weapon—the realization that no one can tyrannize someone who receives them.
To do this, we must be willing to release anything or be moved anywhere in order to stay open. The benefits of having a formidable enemy are great. We have the chance to grow. So as not to become hardened, we learn we must forgive and then further discover the mechanics of forgiveness are simply releasing our sense of entitlement.
If there is no perception of rights, then nothing can be or has been done to us. With our focus always on staying open, we are ‘forced’ to become the person we truly want to be.