I imagine some of you have had great “white light” experiences, the kind that wake you up to changing your life. If you haven’t taken heed, you probably know that what you get instead is a slow erosion of your life. An erosion that takes you down, all the way to the bottom, so your self pity and pride can be chiseled away and who are really meant to be finally shines through.
Category: My Video Diary
Divorce opens up a space for you to meet your partner for the first time. All of the ideas of who you should be to each other are ripped away and the two of you can finally sit across each other, human to human, and discover who you actually are.
What do you do when you’re caught in a habit that doesn’t work anymore?
“We want to let go, but we habitually hold it together. We hold onto things that, at some point in time, we thought we needed, but suddenly find don’t work anymore. We’re used to knowing what to do, but what we really want is to get to a place where we don’t know anymore.”
“If you pretend that you are easy to get inside of, you will attract low grade players that have no idea of how to penetrate you. You can intoxicate them to stay for awhile, but they will eventually drain you. With each one, you have less and less power to attract someone who could actually give you what you want. This is the result of impatience.”
As long as somebody is irritating to you, you have not penetrated them. Here is a beautiful example from my friends Rob and Rachel. A woman will crank up the volume of complaint until you handle her. She wants you to prove that you will penetrate her no matter how crazy she is. Trying to get away will not save you. But penetrate her and she will be butter.
“You are scared you will stroke her wrong, so you stop stroking. And when you stop, your inaction causes harm. That is the wall you are locked behind in all of your life. You will make terrible mistakes. Make them and clean them up. Because they will never cause as much harm as your inaction.”
From a January one-day intensive, watch me demonstrate the level of attention needed to truly see a woman. “She is offering all of the signals, but they are very very subtle. She is giving you the thread to follow back to her out of control place. You must earn it by noticing.”
“Women want to be possessed. In order to live there, we need violation – violation of all of the rules that are locking our sex down. We want those ideas out of us, so we can breathe and be free. Stop at nothing to get to her”. A clip from my January 7th intensive.
What’s so hot about a Thug?A video clip from Nicole’s recent one day intensive in SF. ”He bypassed all of my laws and rules that kept me from having the sex that i wanted.”
Does it feel like your lover archetype is nonexistent? I talk about waking her up in this clip from my recent one day intensive in SF.
